BBW tend to get a lot of criticism in society, this is just the norm. So when you pair that up with let’s say taking your clothes off for an internet porn site, people really start looking down their noses at you. The fact is this, I am not here to build my self-esteem from being nude on the internet. I have no problem showing my body so I show it. What people choose to think about those photos and my actions is on them. The only thing that matters is how I feel about myself and about my life. I’m perfectly ok with every aspect of my personality, all sides and facets of it. That includes my sexuality. If people view nudity and sex as something that is degrading then they need to look into themselves and find out what it is that they judge about themselves that they feel they have to look upon another and cast judgment. When you can learn to not be ashamed of your own sexuality then you will start to see others for what it truly is.
It is not my responsibility to teach people how to be grown and mature. If their parents failed them on that, there is nothing that I can do about that. If a man is going to be disrespectful to women, you can be sure he did not learn it from looking at my naked photos. I am proud of who I am and when someone starts talking down about women like me who do what I do for a living and then call it their hate blog, well you got that right. It is full of hate. But again, it’s not my responsibility to show this person how to act, that’s on her. When a man says something to me that I find to be distasteful or annoying, I simply ignore them. They will get no feedback from me of any kind. One of two things happens, they eventually go away or (less likely) they learn. Sometimes it takes them a real, real long time for them to go away. We all know that doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result is the definition of insanity, right lol?
I could sit here all day blaming other people for how I’m treated or for the way my life is. Ultimately, it’s my responsibility, no one else. You know why? Because when my life is phenomenal I refuse to give anyone else the credit other than me! People who don’t know how to act will never know how to act unless they take it upon themselves to better themselves and to stop being ignorant. Making a rant about how men treat you because you think women like me are the cause for the disrespect that is flung your way is just as ignorant. Look within you. Do not point fingers because when you do people will be more than happy to dig up your skeletons and throw them up in your face. Have a nice day and to all of my fellow “internet sluts”, Do You!
