Most of us BBW website girls are just the average girl who’s been on the internet for a while and has decided that this would be an enjoyable way to earn some income. For most of us that means that we still go about using various parts of the web in the same way we always have. You know back before I ever thought of having a website, I would post non-nude photos of myself on AOL because I liked the attention. I think that is why most BBW really truly decide to do this. This is just my theory of course and all reasons can very personal and vary greatly. Fact is, I STILL like the attention. Which is why I post photos of myself on places like myspace, and flickr, and where ever else I am allowed to post photos of myself.
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Naturally if I’m joining any kind of site or community, I am going to add a link to my blog. LOL This is where things get really funny. About a month or so ago a gentleman came across my pics on flickr. Needless to say he was very enthusiastic about me, very enthusiastic. Even though he was married! Now for the most part, if someone is appreciating my photos and they comment on them and email me about them, I am going to be appreciative of the compliments and I am going to feel good about their response. I mean that is why I posted the pics in the first place so wouldn’t it be rude to not be friendly with people?
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I have a no internet hook-up and no cyber policy for myself and that goes double for someone who is married. I just don’t get into it but regardless I was still communicating in response to this gentleman. But then he decided to look at my profile page and he saw my link to this here blog and he completely changed. Totally accused me of trying to shake people down and get them to join my website and then wrote me off! Does this bother me? Not really. It just amazes me how someone else’s issue automatically becomes my issue. Like all of a sudden I was some grand master schemer who has all of these alterior motives for posting my pictures lol. But see here is the flip side to this… there are many men who will try to befriend me in the hopes that they get me to warm up to them and be more inclined to show them more. Man all I want is comments on my photos. That’s it! If people want to see more naughty stuff then I direct them to here. Hey that’s only fair, I don’t publish pornographic photos on sites like flickr becuase I do my best to be responsible, but I do post suggestive and teasing photos.
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Too many fellas out there don’t look at it from the females point of view. They want something for nothing. They badger women into sending nude photos in email. They badger them into getting nude on cam in chat rooms and they want them to be big huge sluts for them and they get no benefit from any of it in return. How is that balanced and fair? This guy had this fantasy that if she’s not charging to see her than she’s really doing it because she just loves to be a slut and she just loves to do it. At the core that is why I am posting the photos that I do post, that is why I sometimes open my cam on yahoo chat and tease the shit out of the whole room for hours on end. But they never get more than I give, I never succumb to the pressure to be nude or show more than I intend to and I NEVER pressure anyone into paying for a cam show or paying for anything. But at the end of the day, I do all of the paid stuff too because I enjoy the attention. I just feel that if I’m going to fulfill a fantasy of yours and you are not my date than I deserve some kind of repayment for giving you what you want.
I’ll tell ya this… I won’t date a man that I’m not interested in sleeping with and you can believe that even if I know I’m going to sleep with him by the end of the night, he’s still buying me dinner and taking me out and spending some fun time with me first otherwise he gets nada. So this is how it is, accept it. Accept the fact that I won’t be posting anything more explicit on those free photo sites and that I won’t be showing any pink on yahoo cam and that I have an adult blog and that I sell my pornographic content. You don’t have to buy it, that’s freedom of choice. Just don’t get mad at me for my choices. 
February 25th, 2009 at 1:32 pm
Wow, sugar… I think you summed it up perfectly. Thanks for getting this out there, I think it’ll enlighten quite a few people!
*kisses*
Savannah
February 26th, 2009 at 1:32 pm
Thank you . Yea it’s not like I was working him but at the same time I’m going to self promote where ever I can. Anyone that has a website no matter what kind it is, is going to use whatever avenues they can to get their site link out there and seen.