Over the years I have received a lot of correspondence from men through various channels. Some have been email, others have contacted me through the phone or cam chat, and still others have contacted me by IM. Even more so now that I have put the IM box on my blogs. Sometimes, more times than I would prefer I have encountered men who are abusive to women like me. Now whether that be because I am fat or because I am photographing my body nude and portraying myself sexually in the photos, or talking provocatively on the phone or on cam, I don’t know their reasons. What I do know is that I find it extremely hypocritical to judge someone that you are jerking your cock off to.
Now let me just back up for a second here. I like communicating with people. However, when I communicate I want to be able to understand what you are saying and when people type in LOLspeak or text talk I find it lazy and I find it a complete turn off and don’t want to speak to you. It makes people look stupid and this is something that I will not tolerate when you want to communicate with me. And for the record, I went to public school but you can see that I still learned how to spell and since the advent of the internet, I’ve learned how to use spell check when I am typing. If you expect me to converse with you, I expect you to form a proper sentence.
Now because of this, I had an argument with someone last week who decided to talk to me in my IM box. The conversation declined quickly to the point where he finally said that I’m lazy and I need to get a real job and stupid people do porn for a living, or something along those lines. Well, what were you doing on my website to begin with buddy? You came here because you wanted to see naked photos and wanted to jack off. So tell me, what exactly about me makes you think that I should be spoken to in this way? What gives people the right to judge someone who takes off their clothes as being less deserving of respect than you? You are sitting there masturbating to all kinds of women on a daily basis and having whatever kind of degenerate thoughts but do I judge you for having them? NO, I don’t. If you could hear just a sample of the types of fantasies people tell me on the phone your fucking jaws would drop and I have never judged a single one of them for having those thoughts or getting horny over them.
I’m not shoving coke cans up my vagina, or doing farm animals, or doing bukkake parties or any other kind of depraved, degrading, sexual acts that are on the internet. I’m stripping out of clothes to nudity. On occasion I use a toy to play with myself in a video. That’s it. I have never appeared on video or in photos with a man, or engaging in any sexual acts with another person. Secondly, do not assume that BigButtNicole.com or BBWSexPot.com is my livelihood. Sure, I make money off of these sites, but the way people steal porn these days I would be in dire straights if I depended solely on my paysite to support me and pay my bills.
Believe it or not, I had a life before my website was born and there are many skills that I possess as a result of that. There are many talents and skills that I have learned because of my site that I’m sure a lot of you couldn’t even wrap your heads around but I’m not going to sit here and write about them because at the end of the day, BigButtNicole.com is about my sexuality. So don’t think you are going to come here and degrade me because you have self-loathing because of masturbating, or for liking big women, or for whatever other fucked up reason you have for judging someone else. I’m giving you fair warning now, if you want to speak to me, learn how to fucking spell.
Finally, one last note about talking to me via IM. I expect that since you are on my website you are at least 18 years of age or older, if you are not then you should not be here, very simple. A lot of people think that because I have the IM box that this is a quick and easy way to talk to me dirty and sexually and get their rocks off. Well let me clear some things up for you. I have not and will not ever talk dirty or sexual to you in an IM conversation. I haven’t done it in seven years and I’m not about to start now. If you want to talk dirty to me, pick up the phone or make an appointment for a cam session. But more importantly, going back to the age of consent thing and you having to be 18 to be on this site. Since I cannot verify how old someone is over an IM conversation, I will not risk taking the chance that I could be talking to someone who is underage in a sexual manner. I don’t care how old you tell me you are, you may as well consider my IM box like getting carded for liquor or cigarettes because I’m not even playing when it comes to this. So if you want to test me, I will ignore you very quickly. It’s very simple. Don’t like it? Too bad!
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Well I’m still having issues with my skin and that still prevents me from going on cam. I’ve been feeling like this is something that I want to do again but I won’t do it until my skin clears up. It’s really not pretty when I have red splotches all over my skin. I am feeling better though which is good, because the hives don’t burn like they were before. So I am hopefully optimistic that maybe some time this month I can cam again lol who knows! What I like is that there seems to be more girls signing for cam daily and that means more viewers to come and see us. That is always a good thing. Well I really don’t have much to say, my life has been very quiet these last few months. I haven’t been dating so the sex life is on major hold and I’ve just been working like crazy. LOL might be time for a good pipe cleaning haha! Oh one last thing, BBWSexPot.com is being transferred to another server and while that happens the site might be down while the domain has a chance to propagate across the internet. So that might take up to 24 hours to complete successfully.
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I have been thinking over and over about some really bad BBW sex experiences I have had over the years when it comes to the oral department. I mean don’t get me wrong, there has been the fair share of just plain bad sex, but I wanted to talk specifically about going down on a BBW date and trying to give her head when you don’t know what you are doing. I don’t know if some guys think that because there is more fat and more padding that they can be more lazy or rough but I’ve had some guys be a little bit rough when it comes to eating my pussy.
There has also been some guys that have no clue as to what they are doing. BBW do have thick pussy lips and you have to use your fingers to spread them open so you can get a good look at where her clit is and how big or small it might be. There are some guys that claim they can eat good pussy and then they have gone down on me and I’ve had a really hard time cumming with them. I can assure you it’s not because of me. I can cum in two minutes by myself and in ten with a skilled cunnilinguist. So I present to you, the run down of things not to do to a BBW pussy when you are licking that clit and trying to make her cum. If you want to make her cum, cum hard, and cum quickly, please heed my advice lol. You won’t be steered wrong, and you will get far better results when you treat a fat pussy with the care it needs. 
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I’ve been getting some steady questions sent to me over on YouTube.com that deal with the Question & Answer series that I’ve started for the blog here. I am really happy that people are taking the time to pose questions to me and interact and make this something worth while. So there were a couple of questions asked, one was about how to engage the larger BBW sizes 210lbs and up in a more sexual topic of conversation. The second question was from someone who wanted to know how to meet hookups, where to find them etc…
All one has to do is look on this website and see the ads that I have for Fling.com to figure out where to find a hook up. I’m really not promoting that website for my health. I’m promoting it because I’ve been successful on that site with finding what I wanted, when I wanted it. I’ve been very successful with getting hook ups from that site with guys that were definitely everything I was personally looking for in my own hook ups. It is worth the membership to find a woman to have fun with. I’ve had a few hook ups and also interacted with a lot of hot guys on there. There are equally a lot of hot women.
What is especially fun is that there is video chat rooms to get to know people in and they are pretty much an anything goes kind of place. People get downright freaky deaky in those chats on their cams lol, no doubt. It’s a great big adult social networking, dating site all rolled into one. Plus the site has no shortage of BBW looking for sex. It’s worth checking out. So watch the video for my answers to the questions these guys sent me this week and stay tuned!
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