As a BBW who wants sex all of the time I sometimes find myself frustrated with my partner for various reasons. I was reading an article this evening and it was discussing mental foreplay. I will admit at times when I encounter a “pick up guide” site I have a very defensive attitude of feeling that this is teaching manipulation to fuck as many women as possible. However, I am not writing this post today to talk about people who like to live this way.
What caught my attention in the article is this…
So simply mentally preparing her for sex is sex. There are many ways that you mentally prepare her for sex. You mentally prepare her for sex when you tell her that she looks beautiful to you. So by definition this could be considered sex.
I can’t even tell you how much of a chord that struck with me. To cite an example, one day in the early spring I was meeting the man I was then dating for “our day”. I made sure that everything looked perfect, my hair, makeup, the fact that I chose to wear a dress that made me feel sexy to see him that day all the way down to the panties I chose to wear. Upon greeting each other I asked if he liked what I had on and his reply was “hey kool-aid” because of the color of my dress 
. That’s a real good way to get your woman all fired up to have hours and hours of sex with you, good job.
He rarely made any complimentary comments to me that would make me feel like he is attracted to me, even though he protested to the contrary. This same man who could not find anything to say about me had plenty to say about all of the other women who he fantasized about online or in magazines and here I am one of those very women, yet I got jack shit. Then I am accused of being insecure. How about hearing you say something like I look beautiful, or sexy, or hot, or yummy might work out better for you in the bedroom?
You men hate to reassure women that they look sexually attractive to you and then you can’t understand why the relationship sours. I mean it’s not completely based on this alone but if a woman puts in an effort to make herself seem sexually appealing to you and you only because she’s coming to see you, don’t you think she wants to hear how hot she makes you? Don’t you think that might get her pussy wet and her mind going just a little bit? Like maybe he can’t wait to get his hands all over me etc…
It took an article written by a man to turn that light bulb on for me so I can just imagine how many men (who are still clueless about the creatures they think they know so much about) think all of their women are needy instead of seeing it as a sexual turn on.
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I want to wish you all a Sexy BBW Merry Christmas from me. It is Christmas Eve and everyone is getting ready for the big day and getting their last minute gifts. If I had it my way I would just stay at home and not go out until tomorrow, but that’s not going to happen. I have to go to my mother’s and have Christmas eve dinner and blah blah, I’m not really looking forward to going or cooking. So I’m trying to prolong it for as long as I can lol.
So I will leave all of you perves with some dirty BBW Santa photos to keep you warm tonight because baby, it’s cold outside.
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Hey Big Butt lovers! How’s it going? You missing my posts a bit? Well as the weeks draw nearer the pressure is on to get my new website fully functional and running because I promised by the new year that it would be up. This means all new content is getting shot this week. I’ve still got about half of the galleries to put up inside of my bbw porn haven.
This means that you are going to be seeing a whole lot more of me in the coming months because I have to get my phat white ass out there to be seen. You really never know where you might see my big butt pop up next. I found some really old photos of me which I took in 2003, I think. It’s really hard to remember but it gets to a point where you forget what kind of photos you did before a certain point and while this was a sucky camera, it was better than the one I had started with and I can see the progression that I had started to make from having really really bad photos to having so-so photos lol.
Overall though, this was a good set for what I had to work with at that particular time. It definitely serves as a benchmark to how much I have improved in the time that has elapsed. However, there is always room for improvement. That is all dependent on whether a model cares about it or not though. And it is something I care about but this time I refuse to let any of that get in my way of this being fun for me or you. So stay with me sweetie to see what I’m going to do next. 2009 is right around the corner, are you ready? 
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LOL You know I just have to laugh. For the longest time way back to when Pam and Tommy’s tape mysteriously ended up in the wrong hands it seems that every celebrity that has tried to make themselves into something out of no talent has a sex tape. I was sitting there watching on the E channel a few minutes ago a show called bad boyfriends and of course they had to list all the bad boyfriends who leaked sex tapes of their then celeb girlfriends. The thing that irritates the hell out of me is that they all portray themselves as victims in this.
I’ve written about this before, nobody can legally appear on a sex tape without written consent. Nobody can appear in any adult related materials for sale without consent as it is against the law. This very site that you are reading right now, even though it’s just a blog, it’s an adult blog and I publish nude photos of myself on there. Therefore I am subject to 2257 regulations which requires me to have on file record of my age and proof of ID along with anyone else who would appear with me in any photos or videos. If the DOJ wanted to come knock on my door one day demanding proof, I would have to provide it.
But for the PR machine of hollywood and the wannabe celebs, it’s the perfect way to get their name out there and make them instantly famous because it’s scandal. And ohh she was the innocent girlfriend who was talked into being on the video with her boyfriend. It was intimate and it wasn’t supposed to be seen by anyone. So and so tried to stop the tape but was unsuccessful. COME ON! Do you really think that the little heiress’ parents don’t have enough money and power to squash something this damaging? They managed to get their daughter out of jail after how many hours but they couldn’t stop a sex tape? You know why they couldn’t? Because their sweet baby girl signed a consent form to allow it to be released and she got paid for the rights to the video. Plus she’s benefited from all of the publicity since it’s release.
Just look at any porn video or website and you will find 2257 in the credits or someplace visible. You know fine, you want to be famous and all that but let’s call it what it really is, a publicity stunt.
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