Most of us BBW website girls are just the average girl who’s been on the internet for a while and has decided that this would be an enjoyable way to earn some income. For most of us that means that we still go about using various parts of the web in the same way we always have. You know back before I ever thought of having a website, I would post non-nude photos of myself on AOL because I liked the attention. I think that is why most BBW really truly decide to do this. This is just my theory of course and all reasons can very personal and vary greatly. Fact is, I STILL like the attention. Which is why I post photos of myself on places like myspace, and flickr, and where ever else I am allowed to post photos of myself.
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Naturally if I’m joining any kind of site or community, I am going to add a link to my blog. LOL This is where things get really funny. About a month or so ago a gentleman came across my pics on flickr. Needless to say he was very enthusiastic about me, very enthusiastic. Even though he was married! Now for the most part, if someone is appreciating my photos and they comment on them and email me about them, I am going to be appreciative of the compliments and I am going to feel good about their response. I mean that is why I posted the pics in the first place so wouldn’t it be rude to not be friendly with people?
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I have a no internet hook-up and no cyber policy for myself and that goes double for someone who is married. I just don’t get into it but regardless I was still communicating in response to this gentleman. But then he decided to look at my profile page and he saw my link to this here blog and he completely changed. Totally accused me of trying to shake people down and get them to join my website and then wrote me off! Does this bother me? Not really. It just amazes me how someone else’s issue automatically becomes my issue. Like all of a sudden I was some grand master schemer who has all of these alterior motives for posting my pictures lol. But see here is the flip side to this… there are many men who will try to befriend me in the hopes that they get me to warm up to them and be more inclined to show them more. Man all I want is comments on my photos. That’s it! If people want to see more naughty stuff then I direct them to here. Hey that’s only fair, I don’t publish pornographic photos on sites like flickr becuase I do my best to be responsible, but I do post suggestive and teasing photos.
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Too many fellas out there don’t look at it from the females point of view. They want something for nothing. They badger women into sending nude photos in email. They badger them into getting nude on cam in chat rooms and they want them to be big huge sluts for them and they get no benefit from any of it in return. How is that balanced and fair? This guy had this fantasy that if she’s not charging to see her than she’s really doing it because she just loves to be a slut and she just loves to do it. At the core that is why I am posting the photos that I do post, that is why I sometimes open my cam on yahoo chat and tease the shit out of the whole room for hours on end. But they never get more than I give, I never succumb to the pressure to be nude or show more than I intend to and I NEVER pressure anyone into paying for a cam show or paying for anything. But at the end of the day, I do all of the paid stuff too because I enjoy the attention. I just feel that if I’m going to fulfill a fantasy of yours and you are not my date than I deserve some kind of repayment for giving you what you want.
I’ll tell ya this… I won’t date a man that I’m not interested in sleeping with and you can believe that even if I know I’m going to sleep with him by the end of the night, he’s still buying me dinner and taking me out and spending some fun time with me first otherwise he gets nada. So this is how it is, accept it. Accept the fact that I won’t be posting anything more explicit on those free photo sites and that I won’t be showing any pink on yahoo cam and that I have an adult blog and that I sell my pornographic content. You don’t have to buy it, that’s freedom of choice. Just don’t get mad at me for my choices. 
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Yikes, it’s been forever since I’ve been over to this bbw blog to make any updated posts for you guys. I hope that February is treating you all well and that I am not far from your thoughts. I wanted to give a little update on the progress of how the new BBW site is coming along. Things are progressing nicely, I’m using a gallery manager and well I’ve started to upload all of the photo galleries to the albums, not all of the photos are showing up in them. This is a little bit daunting because I am not sure why it is happening. So it looks like it’s back to square one on that. The good news is that once the pictures are all sorted then I can work on getting the videos loaded up.
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Once the content is all completely added then I can finish the tour design and open for business. After I launch that site I am going to set my sites on a new website project that will be more niche oriented and dealing strictly in fetish. For right now though, I am keeping my lips sealed on that top secret plan hehe. Once it is near completion then I will start spilling the beans on it some more. I think it’s going to be fantastic though.
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So yesterday I decided to stimulate the economy and go shopping. I was in a local department store and spied a couple of cute nighties. They are extra large and I know that depending on the type of fabric, especially if they are poly or stretchy cotton I have no problem fitting my fat ass into them. They are super fucking cute and I got them for a great steal! I love good bargains on designer clothes, fucking love it!! For example, I’ve been on a huge Ed Hardy kick lately and have been amassing a nice little collection of Ed Hardy gear and accessories and that just rawks. But the one little nightie I got is so wicked, it has skulls and little ribbon bows lol to make it more girlie. I love that whole girlie punk thing, so cute. The other little nightie, well I am wearing it right now and it’s super curve hugging and I love the top of the nightie because its this sweet little puckered empire bust and it makes my tits look really good hahaha. So anyway, the site is going to be a few more weeks and then will be ready for it’s grand opening. Can’t wait till the launch of that new bbw site!
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A lot of guys have been asking me to open up my BBW webcam again on iFriends. I really was trying to focus on doing it on an appointment only basis but it seems really difficult for a lot of guys to make appointments to chat with me. It’s much easier to catch me when I’m hanging out in the room ready to go.
I’ve been really busy lately. Been building up a website that has been a little bit of a guilty pleasure for myself. It’s focused on my cats and it’s a cute and funny little blog where I post videos and pictures of them. Also I really goofed up on the members site and made a major boo-boo which I am trying to fix as I type all of this(actually I took a break from it) but I am working diligently to get this rolling very very soon. I also have a new idea for a second niche/fetish site that I would like to open up in probably about two-three months down the line. I’ve got the domain for it and I am expecting that it will be a good seller.
One of my boys just recently purchased this really hot corset for me and it is uber cute and he also bought a few other accesories to go with it to make a complete outfit so that will be something that is going to be featured on the new main website. It’s all coming together now and I expect it will be going live within the next few weeks. It’s just time consuming to get years worth of content up into the website area. In the meantime you can have fun with me in the same places you always find me, iFriends and niteflirt. I’ve been really excited about looking hot for you on cam and I think the pictures I’ve been posting prove this. Hope to see you in my BBW webcam chat soon!
