BBW Sex Ed 101 is now in session. Let’s be real though, this doesn’t just pertain to BBW. I’m simply labeling it that because I am a BBW and I am going to be talking about my own sexuality this morning. I was initially going to go to sleep around 5:30am and then I decided to get a quick workout in so that I could de-stress. I have been incredibly stressed the last two days, tense as can be. I got a quickie phone sex call and by the time I was done with that I noticed that my clit had decided to wake up and wanted some attention. So I did what any warm-blooded horny BBW would do and got the big guns out haha. Now I would say for about 12 years or so now I have known about my A-spot from having an extremely attentive and skilled boyfriend at the time, I discovered how to have really explosive orgasms.
Yea, yea we have heard about the G-spot for years and years and it’s been beaten to death. I have men claim they know how to find it. I had one sleaze from a dating site even offer to fist me to make me squirt after just chatting to him for all of 5 minutes. Hmm yea… let me let you ruin my pussy for your own experimentation and ego stroke… um pass! I’m going to be honest here, the G-spot is not all that important for me. Squirting is not that important for me either. I’ve had a lot of men who are ignorant about women’s bodies tell me that I should be squirting and I should be this and I should be that. Listen, I’ve had a sexual relationship with my body since I was old enough to know that using a vibe felt good on my clit. For those women who love to squirt and can achieve their ultimate orgasm this way, more power to you.
Fact is… I can squirt. I’ve done it several times during masturbation and I know that conditions have to be right, and I have to be in the right position and angle for that to happen. Secondly when I do squirt, I am not a gusher, it all kind of just comes out. It’s really nothing intense or spectacular so for me lol, I can’t see what the big deal is. But what a lot of people don’t know about is the A-spot. I know that with the right kind of partner (mainly someone who is attentive) who knows how to stimulate a woman’s body he can have me cumming in no time flat and explosive full-body orgasm and the sheets still stay dry haha! The A-spot is way back in the vagina, past the g-spot and it is almost what I would describe as the back end of the clitoris. When I get stimulated on both of these spots at the same time I can cum within 2-3 minutes. They are so intense in fact that I often break down in tears afterwards. I mean I realize that making a woman squirt is great for the ego because it’s the kind of physical response that you can actually see. But when you can make a woman completely lose her shit to the point where you have to step back from the bed to watch in awe at her just riding those waves, and then she begs you to get over there and fuck the shit out of her… THAT is the best ego stroke you will ever get. 
